There are so many milestones to overcome as a toddler. We have to remember that they haven’t been on this Earth for long and so all experiences are new to them.
They have to create new neural pathways to their brain of schemas / programmes of new experiences so that they find the encounter easier next time because they can access that schema and remember what to expect.
Some toddlers find this very hard. The world is new to them. It is full of excitement and distractions. They may need more help to embed the schema in their brain for future reference.
This is where a programme like Sesame Street can help. Sesame Street is fantastic for toddlers. It has helped a neurodivergent toddler I work with to tolerate brushing his teeth because Elmo brushes his teeth. It has helped him to enjoy having a shower because Big Bird loves to shower. It has even helped him with toileting and he is now going without nappies. All thanks to Sesame Street!
If you have a toddler and are concerned that they are finding these life skills difficult to learn then try using a programme that appeals to them like Sesame Street. You might be surprised at the results. Just remember that learning a new skill, building neural pathways , take time. You can’t just show the programme once and expect it to happen instantly. They might need to watch it many times before they have embedded it as a schema that they can turn to when they need to.
The neurodivergent toddler
